No ke aha e uē ai kaʻu keiki?

ʻO ke ola o kahi pēpē e pili ana i ka ʻai, ka hiamoe a me ka uē. I ka wā o kona hoʻomohala ʻana, e loaʻa iā ia ka nui o nā reflexes a me nā mākaukau. E lilo ana kāu pēpē i kamaliʻi a hoʻomaka mālie ʻo ia e uē, pāʻani, hele wāwae, kamaʻilio, etc. E hoʻomau ʻo ia i ka uē i kona wā e ʻoluʻolu ʻole ai. Ma kēia ʻatikala, e ʻike i ke kumu e uē ai ke keiki.

He aha nā kumu o ka uē ʻana i nā keiki?

 

Ma keʻano laulā, uē mākou i ka wā e ʻike ai mākou i ka nui o nā manaʻo. ʻO ka hoʻokahe ʻana i nā waimaka e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe iho a hoʻokuʻu i nā pilikia a pau āu e noho nei. ʻO kēia ka hihia me nā pēpē. Me lākou, ʻaʻole kēia wale ke kumu o ko lākou waimaka. ʻO ka pōkole, uē lākou no ka mea e ʻeha lākou i kekahi wahi, a no ka makemake paha e hōʻike i ko lākou manaʻo.

ʻO ka uē ʻana i mea e kamaʻilio ai

 

ʻOiai ʻo ke ʻano o ka ʻōlelo mua i ʻike ʻia e ke keiki ʻo ka uē, ʻo ia ke ala e hoʻohana ai ʻo ia e kamaʻilio me kona makuahine, makuakāne a me nā mea e pili ana iā ia. Ke makemake ʻo ia i kekahi mea, pōloli, piha ka diaper, makaʻu a luhi paha, e uē ʻo ia e makaʻala i kona mau mākua. No ka pēpē, ʻo ia ke kumu nui o ka ʻōlelo a hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻōlelo.

Hoʻoponopono ʻia kēia mau ʻōlelo makaʻala e ka lolo makua, nāna e hoʻopuka i nā pane i ka uē ʻana. Ke uē ke keiki, ʻimi ka lolo e ʻike i nā pono o kēia keiki i mea e pane aku ai, a laila, e hoʻomaha iā ia. No laila, ʻo ka uē ʻana a me nā manaʻo e hiki mai ana ke kamaʻilio ma waena o ke keiki a me kona mau mākua.

Ka uē ʻana no nā kumu lapaʻau

 

Ma kahi o 5% o ka uē ʻana ma muli o nā kumu olakino. Hiki i ke pēpē ke uē no kona ʻeha a ʻeha paha. ʻO ka hihia maʻamau i ka wā o ka niho a i ʻole ke kuni me ka mahana ma luna o 38°. E ʻoluʻolu ʻole ke keiki, a ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i ka mea e hana nei iā ia a i ʻole pehea e hoʻomaha ai iā ia iho, uē ʻo ia. I kēia mau hihia, pono ʻoe e nīnau i ke kauka e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia.

Pono e hoʻomaopopo ʻia hiki i nā pēpē ke maʻalahi i nā pilikia digestive i kapa ʻia ʻo "infant colic". No laila, inā kānalua ʻoe i kēia ʻano maʻi i kāu keruba, e kamaʻilio koke i kāna kauka.

He aha nā kumu o ka uē e like me ka makahiki o ke keiki?

 

Ke ulu nei, hoʻomaopopo nā keiki i ko lākou kaiapuni a me ke ʻano o ka hana maikaʻi a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, hoʻomohala lākou i nā reflexes e hoʻololi iā ia. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole like ke kumu o ka uē ʻana o kahi pēpē me ka uē ʻana o ke keiki.

I nā kamaliʻi

 

ʻO ka uē he ʻōlelo paʻa i nā mākua. E pili ana ia i kahi noi a kāu pēpē e makemake ai e hoʻokō ʻoe. Ma waho aʻe o nā kumu olakino, uē paha ke pēpē no ka loaʻa ʻole o kāna mea i makemake ai. Pono ka manawa a me ke ahonui ma kou ʻaoʻao e hoʻomaopopo iā ia ʻaʻole loaʻa mau kāna mea i makemake ai. I kēia makahiki, e uē wale ʻo ia iā ʻoe e hōʻike i kona huhū a huhū paha.

I na keiki 2 a 3 makahiki

 

Ma kahi o 2 a i ʻole 3 mau makahiki, ua hoʻomaka mua kāu keiki e haʻi waha i kāna makemake a i kona manaʻo. No ka mea ʻaʻole i hoʻomohala maikaʻi ʻia kāna ʻōlelo, uē paha ʻo ia inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke haʻi ʻōlelo i kona manaʻo. Aia paha kekahi mea e hoʻopilikia iā ia a ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hana i kekahi mea e like me kona makemake.

Ma kahi o 4 mau makahiki, hiki i kāu keiki ke hōʻike i kāna mau makemake. I kēia mau makahiki, hoʻomaopopo ka mea liʻiliʻi i ka wā e uē ai ʻo ia, e holo mau ana ʻoe e hāʻawi iā ia i kāna mea e kuko ai. No laila, e uē ʻo ia i ka wā e makemake ʻole ai kekahi mea iā ia. Hiki nō hoʻi ke pili ka uē ʻana i ka paʻakikī i ka mālama ʻana i nā manaʻo a i ʻole ka manaʻo ʻole. E uē paha kāu keruba no kou nānā ʻana a manaʻo ʻole ʻia.

I na keiki 5 a 6 makahiki

 

Ma kahi keiki 5 a 6 paha makahiki, ua maʻalahi ka mālama ʻana i nā manaʻo a me ka hōʻike ʻana i nā makemake. ʻO ka ʻōlelo ma hope o kona uē ʻana he hōʻole paha i nā hoʻoholo a kona mau mākua. I kēia makahiki, hiki i kāu keiki ke nīnau i kāu mau hoʻoholo. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe paʻa, e ʻōhumu ʻo ia no kēlā me kēia hoʻoholo āna i makemake ʻole ai.

No ke aha e uē nui ai kāu keiki ke noho pū ʻo ia me ʻoe?

 

'Oi aku ka uwē o ka pēpē i mua o kona makuahine ma mua o kona makuakāne. I kekahi manawa, manaʻo ʻoe he makuahine ʻino ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole pēlā. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo ʻo ʻoe ke kanaka pili loa i kāu keiki. ʻO ʻoe ka mea i hilinaʻi nui ʻia, ʻo ia ke kumu i ʻoi aku ka ikaika o kāna mau ʻano me ʻoe.

Inā uē nui kāu keiki i kona wā e noho pū ai me ʻoe, ʻo ia hoʻi, i mua o kou alo, hiki iā ia ke hoʻokuʻu i nā ʻāʻī a pau āna i hōʻiliʻili ai i kona lā a i kāna pule. ʻIke ʻo ia ua palekana ʻo ia a e hoʻohana pono i kēia mau manawa pili e hoʻokuʻu ai. Ke ʻike ʻo ia i ke kamaʻilio, ma waho aʻe o ka hoʻokahe ʻana i kona waimaka, hiki iā ia ke haʻi iā ʻoe i ka mea i hana ʻia me kāna mau hoa papa ma ke kula a i ʻole kona mau hoaaloha ma ka home.

Pehea e hoʻomaha ai i kahi keiki uē?

 

Ke alo ʻoe i nā uē uē maʻamau, hiki iā ʻoe ke hopohopo nui, hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo nui i ke kaumaha. ʻAʻole maikaʻi paha ia no ʻoe, kāu keiki, a i kou ola ʻohana. E aʻo pehea e pane maikaʻi ai i ka uē ʻana o kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e ola maikaʻi i kēlā me kēia lā. Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka hana ʻana me ke keiki uē.

Noho mālie

 

He mea ʻole ke noi ʻana i kāu keiki e ʻoluʻolu inā ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i loko o kahi kūlana hopohopo. ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻōlelo ua huhū ʻoe, e ʻike ana kāu keruba inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kou kūlana maʻamau. I hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha hou, e mālie ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ke hele ʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i kekahi ʻano ʻino.

E hōʻoluʻolu i kāu keiki

 

I ka wā o ka uē ʻana, pono kāu keiki e ʻike i kou manaʻo, kou aloha a me kou aloha. ʻO kēia nā mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia e hoʻolohe ʻia a hoʻomaopopo ʻia. Ma ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā hana hoʻolohe a me ke aloha, e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kāu keiki e hana like. No ka hana ʻana i kēia, hiki iā ʻoe, no ka laʻana, lawe iā ia i kou mau lima, paʻi i kona lauoho a i ʻole kona kua, hāʻawi iā ia i kahi pūliki...

E pale i ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana iā ia

 

ʻOiai ʻo ka uē a me ka uē ʻana o kāu keiki e lilo i mea hoʻonāukiuki, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻopaʻi iā ia. Hiki ke hoʻopaʻi ʻia e kāu keiki he hōʻole i kona mau manaʻo. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, pono ʻoe e hōʻike iā ia i kou hauʻoli e hoʻokipa i kona mau manaʻo.

E wehewehe i ke koʻikoʻi o ke kamaʻilio

 

E aʻo aku i kāu keiki inā makemake ʻo ia i kekahi mea, e noi maikaʻi a me ka mālie. ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia e ʻōhumu no ʻoe e hoʻokō i kāna mau makemake āpau. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo iā ia aia kekahi mau mea ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke loaʻa inā ʻo ia e uē.

Inā paʻakikī kāu keiki e loaʻa kekahi mea, e hoʻomanaʻo iā ia i ke koʻikoʻi o ke kamaʻilio. No kēia, pono ʻoe e hōʻike i kou makemake e hoʻolohe iā ia. Inā ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i kāna makemake, e wehewehe iā ia i ke kumu e hiki ʻole ai me ka lokomaikaʻi a me ke kūpaʻa.

E hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia no kāna ʻano maikaʻi

 

Ke manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻāʻo ana kāu keiki e ʻōlelo mālie, e hōʻike iā ia ua haʻaheo ʻoe i kāna ʻano. E haʻi iā ia e hele mau i kēlā ala ke noi mai ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kekahi mea. E like me kēia, e manaʻo ʻo ia e paipai ʻia e lawe i ka ʻano kūpono.

E hoʻohana i nā hana kūpono i mua o kahi kamaliʻi e uē ana

 

Ke alo nei me ka uē ʻana o kahi kamaliʻi, ʻo kāu mau manaʻo mua e nānā inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia pōloli a i ʻole maʻemaʻe kāna diaper. Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua hiamoe ʻo ia, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻoluliluli iā ia e hiamoe. A i ʻole, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i kāna pacifier a hōʻoluʻolu paha e hoʻohuli iā ia. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manawa, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha iā ia me ka ʻauʻau maikaʻi a i ʻole ka hele wāwae. Ma waho aʻe o kēlā, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i kahi puliki a honi paha.

 

Hele kāu mau keiki i ke kula, nalowale lākou i ko lākou mau lole āpau a pono ʻoe e kūʻai i nā mea hou, loaʻa iā mākou ka hopena no ʻoe.

Hāʻawi mākou i nā lepili paʻa ponoʻī a me ka hao e hōʻailona ai i nā waiwai o nā keiki.

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