No ke aha e nahu ai ke keiki?

Ke nahu ke keiki i kekahi keiki, he kanaka makua a makua paha, he nui kona ano. Ma muli o kona mau makahiki, hiki i ka nahu mai ke ala e hōʻoluʻolu ai i nā pilikia i hoʻokumu ʻia e ka niho ʻana i kahi ala e hoʻomaha ai i ka ʻehaʻeha i hana ʻia e kona kaiapuni. He ʻano maʻamau kēia i nā keiki liʻiliʻi. Ma kēia ʻatikala, e ʻike i ke kumu o kēia ʻano i kāu keiki!

No ke aha e nahu ai nā keiki liʻiliʻi?

 

No ka pēpē, ʻo ka nahu ʻana he mea ia e ʻimi ai i kona kaiapuni. Ma ka waha i ʻike ai i nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole i kēia manawa, waiho ʻo ia i nā mea a pau āna i loaʻa ai ma laila i mea e launa pū ai me nā mea e hoʻopuni ana iā ia. Ma kona waha, hiki iā ia ke hoʻoholo inā makemake ʻo ia i kēia a me ia mea. ʻO ka meaʻai, nā mea, a i ʻole kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, eia ke ʻano o ka hele ʻana o ka pēpē, a me kēia, a hiki i ke komo ʻana i ka ʻōlelo (ma kahi o 3 mau makahiki).

Mai ka ʻewalu a me ka ʻeiwa o ka malama, e nahu ikaika ana ka pēpē no ka mea i kēia makahiki e hoʻomaka mālie ai kona mau niho. He nui ka pilikia o ka niho, kahi e nahu ai ke keiki i na mea a pau i hiki ke loaa. Inā loaʻa kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i kēia kūlana, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻāhewa iā ia a wehewehe paha he hewa ka nahu ʻana. Ma waho aʻe o kona ʻōpiopio ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i kēia mau wehewehe ʻana, he ala wale nō ia e hoʻomaha ai i ka ʻeha kino.

Ma kahi o 2 mau makahiki, ʻaʻole ʻeha ke keiki i ka ʻeha kino. Hoʻomaka ʻo ia e launa pū me nā keiki ʻē aʻe i kona mau makahiki. Inā ma kahi o ka ʻumikumamālua a me ka ʻumikumamāwalu mahina, pāʻani pū nā pēpē me nā mea pāʻani like, hoʻomohala lākou i ka makemake o loko e pāʻani me kekahi i ka wā i piha ai lākou i 2 mau makahiki. ʻO kēlā ʻōlelo, ʻaʻole lākou ʻike pehea e hana ai. No laila ʻo ke ala maikaʻi loa e loaʻa iā ia ʻo ke hoʻohālike i ka hana a kekahi. Inā ʻike kāu pēpē i kekahi e nahu ana i kahi mea, e hana hou kēia i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

No ke aha e nahu mau ai nā keiki ma luna o 3?

 

ʻAʻole like ke ʻano o nā nahu o ka pēpē ma lalo o 2 mau makahiki a me nā keiki ma luna o 3 makahiki. No nā mea hope loa, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manaʻo. Mai ka makahiki 3, hoʻomaka ka ʻōlelo a ke keiki e ulu mālie, ʻoiai ʻo ia ka ʻōlelo ʻilihune. I kekahi manawa paʻakikī paha ka haʻi ʻana i ko lākou manaʻo a i ko lākou manaʻo. I kēia mau makahiki, pilikia nā keiki i ka mālama ʻana i ko lākou mau manaʻo.

Hiki i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi ke nahu i nā mea a i ʻole nā ​​kānaka kokoke iā ia no ka mea:

• makemake ʻo ia e lawe i ka pāʻani a kekahi keiki
• huhū ʻo ia
• ua luhi ʻo ia
• makemake ʻo ia e pale iā ia iho
• hauʻoli loa ʻo ia
• makemake ʻo ia e hōʻike i kona hauʻoli a i kona aloha
• ua nahu ʻia ʻo ia a ua ʻike paha i kahi hana ʻino mai kekahi keiki ʻē aʻe
• hopohopo ʻo ia
• hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e huki i ka manaʻo o ke kanaka makua a i ʻole kona mau mākua
• ua hana ʻo ia i nā manawa he nui a ua hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia he ala maikaʻi loa e loaʻa ai kāna makemake…

I ka pōkole, hiki i kāu mea ʻona liʻiliʻi ke hoʻohana i kēia ʻano hana e hoʻokuʻu ai i nā ʻeha, e hoʻokuʻu i nā manaʻo e hoʻopau iā ia a i ʻole e uku i ka ʻilihune o kāna ʻōlelo. Pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia e hiki i nā kūlana likeʻole ke hoʻokomo i kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi i kahi pilikia. ʻO kēia ka hihia no ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi kaikunāne a i ʻole ke kaikuahine liʻiliʻi, kahi neʻe, hoʻololi i ke kula, hemo ...

Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole like nā keiki i ke ʻano o ke ola kaiāulu. ʻOiai mahalo kekahi poʻe i ka hui ʻana o nā keiki ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka hōʻoluʻolu o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ke noho wale lākou. ʻO ka mea maʻalahi loa i ka nahu ʻana ʻo ia ka mea hope. Kūleʻa lākou e hoʻomohala i kahi ʻano hana pale e kū ai i kēia ola ma ke kaiāulu (ma ke kula, ma ka nursery, ma ka home, etc.). Eia naʻe, hiki i ke keiki ke nahu wale no ka leʻaleʻa, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke ana i kona ikaika.

Pehea e hana ai i ke keiki nahu?

 

Inā e niho mau ana kāu pēpē, e kūʻai iā ia i mea pāʻani a i ʻole apo niho. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha i kona ʻāʻī me ka ʻole e nahu i kekahi. E akahele wale ʻaʻole e hoʻopili i kona niho iā ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, me ke kaula, ʻike ʻia kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i ka pilikia o ke ʻoki ʻia.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā ua ʻelemakule kāu keiki, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke kumu o ia ʻano e hoʻoponopono maikaʻi ai. ʻO ka mea kūpono, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia e hoʻōki i ka nahu ʻana, ʻo ia ka pane koke ma hope o ka nahu ʻana. Inā ua nahu ʻia kekahi keiki, eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hahai ai.

• Pono ʻoe e noho mālie a loaʻa ka hopena i ana ʻia. He ʻano kūlohelohe maoli ka nahu ʻana i kēlā me kēia keiki i ko lākou ulu ʻana. Inā ʻaʻole kūlike kāu pane ke makemake kāu keiki i kou nānā ʻana, hiki ke hoʻowalewale ʻia ʻo ia e nahu hou. Manaʻo ʻo ia i kou nānā ʻana iā ia.

 

• A laila e nānā pono i ke keiki i nahu ʻia. Inā ʻeha ʻo ia, e nānā ʻaʻole koʻikoʻi ka ʻeha. Ina ua nahae kona ili, e lawe i ka wai wela a me ke kopa e holoi ai i ka eha. A laila, e hoʻopili i kahi lole maloʻo a i ʻole ka hau i ʻole e pehu. Inā makemake kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i kou nānā ʻana, manaʻo ʻo ia ua hāʻule kāna hoʻolālā. No laila ʻaʻole ʻo ia e paipai ʻia e nahu hou.

 

• Hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i kāu keiki e hoʻomaha i ka mea i nahu ʻia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noi iā ia e kiʻi i ka hau, ke olonā hou a i ʻole kāna mea hōʻoluʻolu. Ma o kēia, hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻeha a me ka hopena o kāna hana.

 

• I nā manawa a pau, e hōʻoia ʻaʻohe mea e paipai i ka ʻano o kāu mea ʻawaʻawa ma ka ʻakaʻaka. ʻAʻole pono kēia e noʻonoʻo e pili ana ia i kahi pāʻani e leʻaleʻa i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

 

• Ma hope o kēlā, e kamaʻilio mālie i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi me ke kūpaʻa. E haʻi aku iā ia ma nā huaʻōlelo kūpono makahiki ʻaʻole e nahu i kekahi. E nānā iā ia ma ka maka a wehewehe i ka hopena o kāna hana (ke ʻeha a uē kāna hoaaloha). ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hele i nā wehewehe lōʻihi.

 

• Inā ʻike ʻoe ua pilikia kāu keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha, e kōkua iā ia e hoʻomaha me kahi mea hōʻoluʻolu e like me kāna mea hōʻoluʻolu. Ke mālie, pono ʻoe e kōkua iā ia e hoʻopuka i kona mau manaʻo a i kāna mea e makemake ai i loko o nā huaʻōlelo (“Ke kaumaha nei au” a i ʻole “makemake wau e hoʻihoʻi i ka pāʻani a koʻu hoa i lawe ai”). A laila, e noʻonoʻo i ka mea i hana ʻia me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo maʻalahi a me nā ʻōlelo pōkole: "Ua maopopo iaʻu ua kaumaha ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e nahu i kāu hoaaloha".

 

• Hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kāu keiki e hoʻomalu iā ia iho no nā manawa e hiki mai ana. E aʻo iā ia e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā ʻoluʻolu ʻole kahi kūlana iā ia. Hiki iā ia ke haʻi loa aku i kāna hoaaloha inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia makemake iā ia e lawe i kāna mea pāʻani e pale aku ai i ka nahu ʻia. E haʻi iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke pāʻani me nā keiki ʻē aʻe inā nahu hou ʻo ia.

Inā nahu ia iā ʻoe a i ʻole kekahi kanaka makua, e hoʻokō i kēia mau ʻano.

• E noho mālie, e ho'āʻo e walaʻau. Na ʻoe e aʻo iā ia pehea e hoʻokele ai i kona mau manaʻo.
• Inā nahu ʻo ia iā ʻoe no kona huhū, e wehewehe iā ia he kuleana kona e huhū, akā ʻaʻole ia he kumu e nahu ai. E haʻi aku iā ia i loko o ka ʻohana, ʻaʻole mākou e hana pēlā.
• E like me ka hihia ma mua, pono ʻoe e kōkua iā ia e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kona manaʻo a ʻike paha i ka mea o kona huhū. A laila e kōkua iā ia e hōʻike.

E akahele, makehewa ke nahu i kāu keiki ma hope o kona nahu ʻana iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole wale ʻo ia e ʻike i ka loulou ma waena o nā nahu ʻelua, akā e manaʻo ʻo ia ma luna o nā mea a pau he hana maʻamau ia mai kona mau mākua ponoʻī e hana.

Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole maikaʻi ka noi ʻana iā ia e kala mai a kapa ʻia ʻo ia he "mean". ʻAʻole naʻe ʻo ia i maopopo i ka waiwai o ke kala ʻana, a inā paha ʻo ia, ʻo ia ka mea e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe. ʻO ke kapa ʻana iā ia he mea ʻino e hoʻopilikia wale i kona manaʻo ponoʻī.

He aha ka hana e pale ai i ke keiki mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana e nahu hou?

 

No ka pale ʻana i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi mai ka hana hewa hou ʻana, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke kumu a ma lalo o ke ʻano o kāna nahu ʻana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo e ʻike iā ʻoe iho a kamaʻilio pū me ia. E makaʻala i nā lā ma hope o ka nahu ʻana. Inā manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻomaka hou ana ʻo ia, e hoʻokaʻawale iā ia mai nā keiki ʻē aʻe a noi iā ia e noho kokoke iā ʻoe.

E paipai mau iā ia e inoa i kona mau manaʻo a e hoʻopuka i waho ma o nā huaʻōlelo a i ʻole ke kiʻi ʻana? Mai poina i ka manawa kūpono e mahalo ai i kāna mau hana maikaʻi liʻiliʻi i hiki iā ia ke mālama i kāna ʻano maikaʻi a hoʻomaikaʻi.

 

Hele kāu mau keiki i ke kula, nalowale lākou i nā lole a pau a pono ʻoe e kūʻai i nā mea hou, loaʻa iā mākou ka hopena no ʻoe.

Hāʻawi mākou i nā lepili paʻa ponoʻī a me ka hao e hōʻailona ai i nā waiwai o nā keiki.

Ua aʻo ʻia kā mākou mau lepili pilikino no nā keiki a ua hoʻololi ʻia kā mākou mau ʻeke i ka makahiki a me nā pono o kēlā me kēia.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kā mākou Puke moena a me kā mākou Puke kula no ka hoʻi ʻana o nā keiki a me nā mea ʻē aʻe he nui ma kā mākou pūnaewele Pepahart.eu.